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David Brooks • The Nuclear Family Was a Mistake

Poor Dorothea before her marriage had never found much room in other minds for what she cared most to say; and she had not, as we know, enjoyed her husband’s superior instruction so much as she had expected.
Rosemary Ashton • Middlemarch
The wife often breaks free of this stalemate first when the couple has children because she shifts her priorities to the happiness of her children.
Adam Smith • Exhausted Wives, Bewildered Husbands: Why your marriage is hurting, and how to blossom as a couple
At length he entered the apartment, and I recognized my brother. It was the same Wieland whom I had ever seen. Yet his features were pervaded by a new expression. I supposed him unacquainted with the fate of his wife, and his appearance confirmed this persuasion.
Charles Brockden Brown • Wieland: or, the Transformation, an American Tale
She smiled slightly. “I’ve lived away from the world for so much of my life, Mr. Winterborne, that I sometimes wonder who I am, or if I belong anywhere.”
Lisa Kleypas • Cold-Hearted Rake
Back in Brooklyn, a poet-nurse to the Union dying writes: A leaf of grass is no less than the journey-work of the stars. Jørgen never reads these words.
Richard Powers • The Overstory: A Novel
Both characters are pursuing equal and opposite desires.