Sublime
An inspiration engine for ideas
Notice we said “It sounds like . . .” and not “I’m hearing that . . .” That’s because the word “I” gets people’s guard up. When you say “I,” it says you’re more interested in yourself than the other person, and it makes you take personal responsibility for the words that follow—and the offense they might cause.
Tahl Raz • Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It
As a negotiator, you’re going to run into guys who lie to your face and try to scare you into agreement. Aggressive jerks and serial fabricators come with the territory, and dealing with them is something you have to do. But learning how to handle aggression and identify falsehood is just part of a larger issue: that is, learning how to spot and
... See moreTahl Raz • Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It
The goal is to identify what your counterparts actually need (monetarily, emotionally, or otherwise) and get them feeling safe enough to talk and talk and talk some more about what they want.
Tahl Raz • Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It

Does His Story Check Out? How to Spot a False Alibi by Asking a Single Question