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“How to Say “Fuck Off” Without Ever Raising Your Voice—And Still Break Them Inside”
offending from the victim position. When we offend from the victim position, we feel like a victim while acting like an offender.
Bruce Springsteen • Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)
He had built his own prison by denying himself and prompting others to do to him what he was doing to himself.
Andreas Moritz • Lifting the Veil of Duality
Trap #2: Projection
Erik Rees • S.H.A.P.E.: Finding and Fulfilling Your Unique Purpose for Life
Le bouc émissaire
Jacques-Antoine Malarewicz • Systémique Et Entreprise
But often the victims are the most competent people, because these are the ones who pose the greatest threat to a fixed-mindset boss.
Carol S. Dweck • Mindset - Updated Edition: Changing The Way You think To Fulfil Your Potential
consorting with those who, too, cultivated self-eradication.
Chuck Palahniuk • Make Something Up
Most people, though, learned to hide for their own safety or to fight back to protect themselves or to become small and pathetic so that people would take pity on them. If you have any of these responses to conflict—defensiveness, rage, withdrawal, weepiness, whatever—it is certain that you developed them for a good reason.