Rosario
@rosario
Got lost and I am trying to find me back again somewhere else.
Rosario
Teenagers and
It’s not about increasing frequency, it’s about creating a new vibe. And, contrary to popular belief, erotic practice doesn’t begin in the bedroom. Eroticism can come from the welcome touch of your lover or it can come from noticing how late summer rain feels on your skin and inviting your lover outside to experience it with you.
From Esther Perel's Blog - Letters From Esther #37: Eroticism is an Art. But It’s Also a Practice.
And now I’ll likely get Orthodox-bro hate mail or they’ll send demons to troll me. (Comments here are only for paid subscribers for this and similar reasons – many sorries; it’s not that I don’t love you all but life is too short for that shit and I’m just not opening my world up to anyone who isn’t a genuinely interested party or subscriber but
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Where does boredom live on the floorplan?
It’s such a good question, not least because there’s a huge cultural narrative around sexual “boredom,” being bored with having the same old sex every time. As the authors write in Magnificent Sex, “Nothing kills desire faster than doing what works – relentlessly.”
If, for you, boredom is merely unpleasant
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Talk to the birds, trees, rocks – as if they were neighbours or friends. The world around you will suddenly become more alive.
“Connection isn’t about nature in our service, a slave to our needs, a commodity for our use, a sticking-plaster for our stresses. Nature isn’t there to provide us with therapy; that isn’t what connection is about.
... See moreThe combined connotations of desire and trust interest me greatly. But I think of hope as something much more than that, and it’s why I believe hope to be essential in difficult times: the practice of hope engages the creative mind. It makes us wonder what we might do to make that desired thing happen, or how we can become in some way aligned with
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