Relationships

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2 ways to instantly improve your relationships: 1. Step into wonder Wonder is curiosity without needing to know the answer. It's finding the awe in people as they are. It means dropping what we ""know"" and getting curious about what we don't know.

when it comes to feeling connected — feeling known — it doesn’t matter if you have a thousand followers, or once shared a smoothie with so-and-so microcelebrity, or founded a Web3 collective that we totally all agree is revolutionizing capitalism and not a scam or whatever. What matters is having 1-5 people who are really excited to spend time with... See more

Conflict-avoidance = not understanding the language of conflict. Like any skill, navigating tension takes practice. 1) Stay in wonder, don't assume things about the situation 2) Aim for connection, not control 3) Express needs, not demands 4) Don't compromise on your truth

it can take just a minute or five to send a friend a text or a voice memo that will mean the world to them, that will store ur love in their heart for a long, long time

On Finding Your People: I’m told I have an unusual talent for finding wonderful people. Below is my strategy for having a rich social life in any large city Disclaimer: This will require you acting in a way that is not normal. You may need to decide whether you want to be normal yet lonely or unusual yet connected 0. Treat it as a second job. For... See more

I know that if you tell someone “we should keep in touch,” you will not keep in touch. Instead say, “I’m going to schedule a phone call with you in two months to catch up, I’ll send you the invite — if we need to adjust when we get closer to the date, that’s fine.”

I know that most people overrate the difficulty of hard conversations, and underrate how good it is to have them. Conflict avoidance slowly rots your whole life, and many people are about eight awkward discussions from a much-improved existence. In other words, go squash all of your beefs. This book is a decent start if you have no idea how to do t... See more