“One of the lessons that Fawn teaches us is that doubt and fear guard the path of desire. Seen in this light, then we can try to reframe fear and doubt, accepting that these feelings no longer exist as our warning to leave, but rather, the signpost affirming we are going the right direction.” -Kathryn Miller
Well, you need dirt to grow plants. A farmer I admire once wrote that 90% of his job was dirt management. Manage the dirt well and the plants grow themselves.
And when I practice letting go of how I think things are supposed to look and instead cultivate a trust in the unfolding that is taking place, often in unseen ways, the Here-ness of challenge or pain or depression or grief or (anything) softens even 5%, and that 5% adds up fast when I don’t assume it’s nothing.