Natalie Audelo
@natalieaudelo
yes person for all things community, connection, & storytelling. civic optimist based in SF
Natalie Audelo
Thu, on What Would You Tell Your Younger Self About Love? :
I would tell myself to not believe the dramatic stories I've been told and sold (which were mostly white, cishet stories that never quite applied to me). I would tell myself to look closer to home, to see the smaller, constant stories of love. I spent yesterday building my father's altar... See more
I would tell myself to not believe the dramatic stories I've been told and sold (which were mostly white, cishet stories that never quite applied to me). I would tell myself to look closer to home, to see the smaller, constant stories of love. I spent yesterday building my father's altar... See more
The Very Best Culture Study Advice
So what we see is that self-actualization is a flywheel: you become self-actualized by seeing reality clearly so you can design a life that fits you, and you become better at seeing reality by engaging with it head-on.
Henrik Karlsson • Henrik Karlsson | Substack
Mastery is the best goal because the rich can't buy it, the impatient can't rush it, the privileged can't inherit it, and nobody can steal it. You can only earn it through hard work. Mastery is the ultimate status.
Derek Sivers
if a person was a house
This is a massive problem in decision-making. We try to close down the solution space of any problem in order to arrive at a single right answer that is difficult to argue with.
Adam Grant • Are We Too Impatient to Be Intelligent?
What if those words — “this is well within the realm of normal” — are actually the kindest and most loving gift we can offer you when you are in the caregiving role again, no matter what you are ever going through, no matter what demands are being placed on you, no matter how much you are struggling, or how well or badly you think you are handling... See more
LETTERS FROM LOVE — With Special Guest Sari Botton!
We associate aesthetic with surface. But good taste is deep structure . It’s the throughline in someone’s life. You can see it in the design of their home, the cadence of their speech, the way they treat people, the books on their shelves.
Taste is how you live a congruent life. Not in the sense of brand consistency, but in the sense of spiritual... See more
Taste is how you live a congruent life. Not in the sense of brand consistency, but in the sense of spiritual... See more
Taste Is the New Intelligence
We design our lives by every choice that we make—from how we plan our days, to how we approach our relationships, to our interactions with our environments. The question we can all practice asking ourselves, she offered, is: “Is what I’m about to do conducive to life?”