Mounica Veggalam
@mounica_v8
Life and leadership coach. Deeply curious about causing self-transformation for joyful accomplishment.
@mounica_v8
Life and leadership coach. Deeply curious about causing self-transformation for joyful accomplishment.
Taking care of needs while being open to the We-ness.
Marriage between two institutional partners
In contrast to the prior alliance, the partners might be expected to share a common meaning for the marriage. Each partner's personal psychological autonomy and distinctness is con-firmed, supported, celebrated; and at the same time each party protects the other against the overrunning of these boundaries.
... See moreDifferentiation occurs by maintaining yourself in the presence of important persons, not by getting away from them. The difference between running away and walking away after you’re “unhooked” is a critical distinction.
(Passionate Marriage pg 64)
one hemisphere's idea of truth is likely to be more fruitful than the other's. As we have seen in Part I, the aspect of reality revealed by the left hemisphere must be contextualised by being taken up into the broader, and deeper, overarching vision available to the right hemisphere; alas, when the left hemisphere takes the lead, it leads us astray
... See moreGenerosity will break your heart. It will heal your Love threshold. You will realize that everybody needs your love. You don’t have to love everybody. That’s too hard; don’t start there. Just begin to notice how much everyone needs and wants to be loved. Let it soften and open your heart.
Ambition comes in two forms, one that precedes interest in the subject and one that grows out of it. Most people who do great work have a mix, and the more you have of the former, the harder it will be to decide what to do.
How to do great work, PG
Differentiation is the ability to stay in connection without being consumed by the other person.
Our role as coaches is to help our clients create B-prime—something that is better than they could imagine for themselves when they began to work with us.
Our difficult situations become more hopeful if we recognize that events are never only what is explicitly formed. If we deal with events as having very many more possibili- ties, and if we understand that the possibilities can emerge only gradually as actual events bring new implying, then we may find a few steps that now begin something new.