Mounica Veggalam
@mounica_v8
Life and leadership coach. Deeply curious about causing self-transformation for joyful accomplishment.
Mounica Veggalam
mounicaveggalam.substack.com
how can my creative superpowers as an artist be channeled into giving extraordinary value and service to others, while sharing my ethos & philosophy along the way?
Resistance, according to Schelling, is not a separate force, but comes fom the flow itself, and enables the unfolding of what in it is always potentially there; it precipitates the collapsing of its own potential into the actual. He is very clear that this resistance is part of the very same creative force that the resistance is there to resist.... See more
A good metaphor talks about something that’s familiar in a new way.
Life is an endless unfolding, and if we wish it to be, an endless process of self-discovery, an endless and unpredictable dialogue between our own potentialities and the life situations in which we find ourselves. By potentialities I mean not just intellectual gifts but the full range of one's capacities for learning, sensing, wondering,... See more
pbs.org • John Gardner : Education and Excellence
The possibility of a self-transforming couple
Among those supports least studied and of which we are most in need of increased understanding are those supports which assist individuals and couples to evolve not only to that place where each can guarantee to the other his or her distinct identity, but which allow persons to share their identities as
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I don't see with my eyes. I see with my mouth. That is to say, I see with language. Things occur as they occur because of language. What distinguishing is, is to take something like an undifferentiated mass and to bring forth from that mass a realm of possibility. Distinction gives existence. It makes existence possible.
Extreme Solicitude in Being-with-one-another:
[This is] a kind of solicitude which does not so much leap in for the Other as leap ahead of him... not in order to take away his 'care' but rather to give it back to him authentically as such for the first time. This kind of solicitude pertains essentially to authentic care-that is, to the existence of the Other, not to a "what" with which he is concerned; it helps the Other to become transparent to himself in his care and to become free for it.
Marriage between two institutional partners
In contrast to the prior alliance, the partners might be expected to share a common meaning for the marriage. Each partner's personal psychological autonomy and distinctness is con-firmed, supported, celebrated; and at the same time each party protects the other against the overrunning of these boundaries.
... See moreWhy do you suppose it takes courage? The more frightened you are, the more courage it takes. The more forceful you are the more frightened you are.