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@landscaping
@landscaping
I knew it was coming from a loving place, but everything inside me was saying, “I don’t want to see anyone. I just want to be alone.” I felt guilty for having these feelings and thought it was incredibly rude to want to be alone on my birthday.
Some of us have larger arguments at stake, arguments often about the bounds of the argument themselves, of what is and is not normal, good, beautiful. A workshop should not participate in the binding but in freeing the writer from the culturally regulated boundaries of what it is possible to say and how it is possible to say it.
All that matters is what’s true for you, which is why getting really good at listening to your intuition and your heart, and following your happiness, is critical.
Through my thirties, I traded one type of self-destruction for another: I gave up partying for perfectionism. I still wrestled with being an outsider—even in my work
one moment is just like the last, and the next, and the next.
Ironically, those among us who are highly sensitive and empathetic are the most likely to be burnt out by over-giving.
It’s important to crank up the contrast. What does life look like with you as a business partner, as opposed to life without you?
you are not meant to just survive, to stay stagnant, to settle; you are meant to keep growing and thrive.
Add to this the pure satisfaction of working in a sector you actually enjoy