Daniel Wentsch

The attachment we have to an individual can supersede an overall decrease in our quality of life, and so the love we usually have toward our children means that our choice to bring them into existence has value above and beyond whatever effect they have on our happiness.

The iterative process of confusion, endurance, and incremental understanding is what literature professors teach when they assign whole books. This march toward understanding doesn’t have a great name other than reading . We need to help students grow into the difficulty of reading. The best way to do that is not to “meet them where they are,” a

One of my ADHD quirks is that if there’s a Big Thing to do that day (doctor’s appointment, package delivery, big presentation) then 100% of my brain goes to that important event. I can’t miss it. Nothing else gets done until The Big Thing gets done.

Conversely, after The Big Thing gets done, nothing else gets done either because my brain –flooded

Another effective [pricing] strategy is using precise numbers, like $245 instead of rounding up to $250. This approach can make the price appear more thoughtfully calculated and less arbitrary, potentially increasing its perceived value and trustworthiness.

Denn anfangs ist Familie noch etwas, das total selbstverständlich ist. Man ist die meiste Zeit zusammen. Das erste Jahr verbringen Eltern mit ihren Kindern quasi im selben Raum. Dann sind es zunächst wenige Stunden ohne Kinder, dann immer mehr Stunden, dann Tage. Und irgendwann sind es nur noch wenige Stunden mit Kindern. Die gemeinsame Zeit löst

It should feel a bit loose. Such is the nature of bottom-up systems (6.1). There are no “occupied slots,” because there is no prescribed order. Therefore, there is no need to worry about which alphanumeric IDs have already been taken. Choose any alphanumeric ID that adequately establishes a relationship between the two ideas, and add it to the

Interest-Driven ADHD Brains

🧠 Non-ADHD brains are importance-driven; they prioritize tasks based on their importance, even if they're not enjoyable.

🧠 ADHD brains are interest-driven; they prioritize tasks based on their interest level, often leading to procrastination on important but uninteresting tasks.

💡 When choosing a career path for someone

In an emotionally healthy childhood, the child can see that the good carer isn’t either entirely good or wholly bad and so isn’t worthy of either idealization or denigration. The child accepts the faults and virtues of the carer with melancholy maturity and gratitude—and in doing so, by extension, becomes ready to accept that everyone they like