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quality of life18
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most people's definition of "trying" is contingent on not taking on any reputational risk, not investing more than two weeks of time, not investing mo

You can’t compete with people having more fun than you.

pain21
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human feeling of pain is both a distinct sensation and a motivation – that is, a specific emotion that reflects homeostatic behavioral drive, similar to

The brain is not just a passive observer in the experience of pain. It shapes pain, amplifies it, echoes it. Brains exposed to prolonged periods of pa

When you stub your toe and feel pain throbbing out of it, that, too, is an illusion. That pain is not in your toe, but in your brain.

events IRL8
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Digital strategist Shelley Bernstein once said that one of the greatest challenges currently facing us is how to interact meaningfully with the people

writing7
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I think of writing a lot like walking. It’s rarely the most popular, the most effective, or the most efficient way of getting to your destination. I d

The world is built by those who can think, but it is ran by those who can articulate.

Most people don’t benefit much from chatbots because what people lack is not good answers so much as good questions. It’s no longer enough to curate

Writers should be paid. There’s this idea that paying a writer is optional. We must make a profound shift about that. When we click on something and c

creativity11
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most people's definition of "trying" is contingent on not taking on any reputational risk, not investing more than two weeks of time, not investing mo

If you want to figure out where you’re invisibly limited in your life right now, ask yourself where you feel most unsafe and defensive despite the lac

what would one imperfect action teach me?

relationships3
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I am grateful for your strange mind which so uniquely filters existence—at first it was difficult for me to interact with because I felt pressure to m

We all carry endless hidden selves and latent worlds, waiting for the right gaze to bring them to the surface. I’ve felt this in my bones: relationshi

"Think of your mother as your grandmother's daughter and get to know her that way." (Michael Kerr)

baseball4
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the basis of that most profound expression of the American psyche, the game of baseball, a game whose object is to leave home in order to return to it

Baseball players have to know before the final two hundred milliseconds of a pitch where to swing, so the earlier they pick up anticipatory cues the b

George Leonard on how mastery is nothing but a series of plateaus with brief spurts of progress: “The most important lessons here — especially for yo

For the aspirant, there’s nothing more comforting than realizing you are not alone in trying. You’re not alone in trying to find a subject, trying to

parenting2
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It's a common misconception that burnouts come from hard work.Burnout comes from a felt loss of control and/or impact.Remember that you can burn out e

For the aspirant, there’s nothing more comforting than realizing you are not alone in trying. You’re not alone in trying to find a subject, trying to

positioning12
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people think they want choices. but they prefer good defaults.

Positioning is the act of deliberately defining how you are the best at something that a defined market cares a lot about.

quotables2
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Impatience is an expensive emotion. Every app wants your decision in seconds. Every employer wants results this quarter. Every investment platform pr

sales and marketing6
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people think they want choices. but they prefer good defaults.

Advertising is fundamentally persuasion and persuasion happens to be not a science, but an art.

they could defend every ad on the basis that it obeyed the rules of advertising. It was like worshiping a ritual instead of the God.

storytelling5
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still one of my favorite lines of all time: and when nobody wakes you up in the morning, and when nobody waits for you at night, and when you can do

A tricky thing about modern society is that no one has any idea when they don’t die. Like, the number of lives saved by controlling air pollution in

The world is built by those who can think, but it is ran by those who can articulate.

money1
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Impatience is an expensive emotion. Every app wants your decision in seconds. Every employer wants results this quarter. Every investment platform pr

culture3
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