Stu Gray
@graymatter
Stu Gray
A question worth asking:
When there is so much on the web, it is easy to fall prey to the impression that this has been done before when you come up with an idea. When this happens, ask: ‘What is my take on this?’
When there is so much on the web, it is easy to fall prey to the impression that this has been done before when you come up with an idea. When this happens, ask: ‘What is my take on this?’
The story of human intimacy is one of constantly allowing ourselves to see those we love most deeply in a new, more fractured light.
Cheryl Strayed • Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar
Love and
To love someone long-term is to attend a thousand funerals of the people they used to be. The people they're too exhausted to be any longer. The people they don't recognize inside themselves anymore. The people they grew out of, the people they never ended up growing into.
We so badly want the people we love to get their spark back when it burns out
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Working on a problem reduces the fear of it.
It’s hard to fear a problem when you are making progress on it—even if progress is imperfect and slow.
Action relieves anxiety.
James Clear | 3 2 1 Thursday email | 08/07/25
Fear and
There’s a saying that your mind takes its shape from what it rests upon. Well, recent science makes it clear that your brain takes its shape from what you rest your attention on.