Crystal
@crystalwrites
Crystal
why do I (crystal) struggle to make decisions sometimes? What can I do to become a better, faster decision maker?
Crystal, people who struggle with decisions are usually not weak, confused, or indecisive by nature. They are careful, perceptive, and relational. The trouble comes from how your nervous system learned to keep you safe.
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Crystal, people who struggle with decisions are usually not weak, confused, or indecisive by nature. They are careful, perceptive, and relational. The trouble comes from how your nervous system learned to keep you safe.
Here is what is... See more
ChatGPT
The 60 Second Decision Filter
Step 1. Name the decision plainly.
Say it in one sentence.
“I am deciding whether to ___.”
If you cannot name it cleanly, you are not deciding yet. You are circling.
Step 2. Classify it.
Ask one question only.
Will this matter in one year?
If no, this is a low consequence decision. Decide immediately.
If yes, continue.
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Step 1. Name the decision plainly.
Say it in one sentence.
“I am deciding whether to ___.”
If you cannot name it cleanly, you are not deciding yet. You are circling.
Step 2. Classify it.
Ask one question only.
Will this matter in one year?
If no, this is a low consequence decision. Decide immediately.
If yes, continue.
Most... See more
ChatGPT
chatgpt
All life is measured by motion; hence, as the universe is in motion, it's alive and can give life.
The greater the motion, the greater the life force.
For something to come to life, it has to contain motion.
In order to bring your vision to life, all you have to do is get in motion, get moving, and take the steps.
Some days you'll be able to take 1,000
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Sherry Ning • You’re bored because you don’t love anything
No way was I going to give up on my work simply because it wasn’t “working.” That wasn’t the point of it. The rewards could not come from the external results—I knew that. The rewards had to come from the joy of puzzling out the work itself, and from the private awareness I held that I had chosen a devotional path and I was being true to it. If
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We may have to go back as far as childhood to ask: What did I really enjoy doing? When did I feel most alive? There may be clues to what our future should be in the way we used to play as small children, when impressing and earning money were far from our minds.
Alain de Botton • A Therapeutic Journey
The hunger to be everything was only ever a longing to be loved.
But you were always worthy.
Even as just one true, marvellous thing:
yourself .
—i know you’ll learn to live for yourself, amber.
But you were always worthy.
Even as just one true, marvellous thing:
yourself .
—i know you’ll learn to live for yourself, amber.
amber. • the hunger to be everything.
What if I told you this hunger to endure everything, this ceaseless reaching, this need to feel something more, is not curiosity, but self-exile? Somewhere along the way, you began to believe that living meant becoming exceptional; being seen; being chosen. That it meant consuming everything the world offers.
But you were only ever meant to come... See more
But you were only ever meant to come... See more