why do I (crystal) struggle to make decisions sometimes? What can I do to become a better, faster decision maker?

Crystal, people who struggle with decisions are usually not weak, confused, or indecisive by nature. They are careful, perceptive, and relational. The trouble comes from how your nervous system learned to keep you safe.

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The 60 Second Decision Filter

Step 1. Name the decision plainly.

Say it in one sentence.

“I am deciding whether to ___.”

If you cannot name it cleanly, you are not deciding yet. You are circling.

Step 2. Classify it.

Ask one question only.

Will this matter in one year?

If no, this is a low consequence decision. Decide immediately.

If yes, continue.

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