More and more, I think my issues with conventional productivity advice โ indeed, with the very notion of productivity โ boil down to this: Spending your days trying to get through a list of things you feel you have to do is a fundamentally joyless and soul-destroying way to live; and most productivity problems, like distraction or procrastination... See more
Somewhere in the future, your today is the good old days. There is a good chance later in life, you want to live your todayโs good old days, despite its shortcomings.
I also grieve the need we feel to explain our love or give it a name. To feel that it might be unacceptable in some circles. And of course, I know that it is. Especially for Black men