đź“š ref - modern mothering
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đź“š ref - modern mothering
The Seventh Wonder of the modern world is a human child, any child. I used to wonder about childhood and the evolution of our species. It seemed to me unparsimonious to keep expending all that energy on such a long period of vulnerability and defenselessness, with nothing to show for it, in biological terms, beyond the feckless, irresponsible... See more
Lewis Thomas • Seven Wonders by Lewis Thomas
I understand better now why humans created certain arbitrary life goals. Getting married, having a kid, buying a house, retirement. All these things are “supposed to happen” at certain stages, in part because of biology. But surely they’ve also served to give us markers of time, to tell our brains that we’re aging even when we don’t feel it. I have
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