sensualism
If you are a weak lover in the moment, you will lose yourself into your partner’s needs.
David Deida • Finding God Through Sex: Awakening the One of Spirit Through the Two of Flesh
Idea
Kate Baer
I will enjoy this life. I will open it
like a peach in season, suck the juice
from every finger, run my tongue over
my chin. I will not worry about clichés
or uninvited guests peering in my windows.
I will love and be loved. Save and be saved
a thousand times. I will let the want into
my body, bless the heat under my skin.
My life, I
The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover
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To be sensual, I think, is to respect and rejoice in the force of life, of life itself, and to be present in all that one does, from the effort of loving to the breaking of bread.
James Baldwin • The Fire Next Time
Mind-blowing, soul-healing, life-changing sex begins with an intentional, detailed preparation to create something special for both of you. And yes, there is an art to it. How you prepare yourself and your lover for sex is as important as the sex itself, if not more so. It is in this meticulous space of creation that your devotion and generosity
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Ritual Design Toolkit – A process & toolkit that anyone can use to design secular rituals.
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Ritual prevents the ordinary from dissolving into invisibility. If you light a candle at dinner, the meal becomes an event. If you walk at the same time each day, it becomes more than exercise. Anthropologists will tell you that rituals function as technologies of attention: certain ordinary acts aren’t trivial, they’re the architecture of meaning.
Don’t just touch her skin—bring all of your awareness and feeling to your fingers as they caress her. Don’t just kiss her—allow your lips and tongue to sense her mouth fully.