Self & Transformation
Perfectionism has nothing to do with getting it right. It has nothing to do with fixing things. It has nothing to do with standards. Perfectionism is a refusal to let yourself move ahead. It is a loop—an obsessive, debilitating closed system that causes you to get stuck in the details of what you are writing or painting or making and to lose sight
... See moreAnother barrier to change is perfectionism’s demand for certainty before action. Because perfectionism says you need to know that your goal is correct before you spend any time or energy on it, you can get stuck spending weeks and months trying to figure out if your goal is worth pursuing in the first place. The issue with making certainty a prereq
... See moreClarissa W. Ong • The Anxious Perfectionist
the source tissue manifesting itself as you, specifically, for a reason
Forms of life, forms of mind | Dr. Michael Levin | What advice do I give to my students?
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ei. dont share all that u think; when interviewing w someone in gatekeeper position, present clear linear story w narrower focus
unite divergent streams of thought
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Perfectionism holds us back from showing up and trying, or really doing the important work of our lives. This happens because when we are afraid of failing, or feeling vulnerable, or not being as good as we want others to think we are, we end up avoiding the work that is required to actually become that good.
Brianna Wiest • The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage Into Self-Mastery
Reincarnate Already
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Exiting the roundabout - while it still feels risky. what am I transforming into? What is emerging? What archetype wants to be born? Listen, dear one, to your heart. The soul is calling.
Frontiers | Narrative as active inference: an integrative account of cognitive and social functions in adaptation
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How I know others aren't: I wouldn't say I'm perfect at diagnosing that. But there's a certain sparkle in peoples' eyes once they get kissed by eternity at stream entry. They have a certain lightness, an ever so subtle remnant of no longer being constrained to the character they are playing on the stage of life. Even if stream entry doesn't general... See more
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