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Being in a one-sided relationship means we don’t have to be truly vulnerable with anyone, and we don’t run the risk of being laughed at or misunderstood. We can securely play our role of constant listener, the person who always understands and never judges, and we know that the other person will almost always approve of us, as long as we don’t stra
... See moreLauren Sapala • The INFJ Revolution
la Grecia clásica, Aristóteles separaba las amistades en tres categorías: los amigos por utilidad , que son buenos en el sentido de que hay un interés mutuo y que no tienen ninguna connotación negativa, por ejemplo, «jugamos al tenis y nos tomamos algo después»; los amigos de placer, que son hasta el 80%, con los que uno se lo pasa bien, pero con l
... See moreMariana Toro • Poner Fin a Una Amistad
También en el nuestro, si nos dedicamos a usar atajos lingüísticos a modo de etiqueta. Es lo que sucede, por ejemplo, al adjetivar continuamente. Por ejemplo, usando palabras malsonantes a modo de resumen, como es el caso de «mierda» para describir algo que no nos gusta o que no nos parece adecuado. Cuando decimos «la comida me ha parecido una mier
... See morePedro Sánchez • Si Me Etiquetas, Me Niegas
A lot of people get into bad life situations this way. A homeowner buys a house at the top end of their budget. A romantic falls for someone who’s already in a relationship. Later they complain about how they’re so in debt, or their sweetheart is cheating.
Derek Sivers • Hell Yeah or No: what’s worth doing
control issues
What do you hate not doing?
Derek Sivers • Hell Yeah or No: what’s worth doing
the person an INFJ needs most is that realistic, thinking, sensor-type of individual who can pull us back down to earth.
Lauren Sapala • The INFJ Revolution
Eileen said that she 'just had to be doing something', and that when she tried to sit down and relax, she felt guilty and had lots of thoughts about all of the things that needed doing and said to herself "it's easier just to get on with it".
BPS • Understanding Guilt: The Useless Emotion?
Let them go. When you experience negative emotions, you can consciously choose to release them rather than repressing them or clinging to them Allow them to be here. You can allow them by acknowledging their existence without clinging to them, or you can Welcome them. You can accept them and have a closer look at them to discover what the core of t
... See morethibaut meurisse • Master Your Emotions: A Practical Guide to Overcome Negativity and Better Manage Your Feelings (Mastery Series Book 1)
We have a strong desire to learn how to move from being a purely reactive human being into a state of higher consciousness. We love to observe our own thoughts, triggers, and psychological patterns (as well as those of others) in an effort to uplevel ourselves mentally and emotionally.