Relationships

Instead of asking "Are you the one," ask two questions of each of you. Do I accept my partner despite their shortcomings? Do I commit to nurture them to achieve what is important to them? And likewise, do they accept me and do they commit to me? All you need is four yeses.

The way I think about coaching is very much how I think about parenting, and I think it translates in lots of other places, that your ability to drive change is about the quality of your relationship, not your hierarchy.

The good thing about conversations is that you realize how little you know.

The worst thing about conversations is that you realize how little you know.

the best relationships consist of a series of unbreachable private understandings