Relationships and Self
Nobody is obligated to do anything for you. But that’s the point of community and friendship. You do things out of love, out of necessity, and out of just selflessness.
Unfortunately when you don’t burden ppl with your problems they think you don’t have any.
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if everyone hates you it's time to sleep, if you hate everyone it's time to eat, and if you hate yourself it's time to shower !!
Learning to Measure Time in Love and Loss (Published 2013)
nytimes.com
I don’t think people treat you how they feel about you. I believe people treat you depending on how they feel about themselves.
Charisma is often just the absence of tension/rigidity in conversation
someone taking the time to explain how they are feeling hurt as a result of our actions means they value our presence in their life. they’re giving us a chance to show up in a way that is comfortable for both parties. when people stop explaining to us how they feel, they’ll exit.
the ideal amount of delusion is non-zero