Relationships

We are merely and forever inside of the divine flow, just like Isaiah’s “rain and snow.” Forgiveness is not some churchy technique or formula. Forgiveness is constant from God’s side, which should become a calm, joyous certainty on our side. Mercy received will be mercy passed on, and “will not return to me empty, until it has succeeded in what it

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Irvin Yalom enjoins therapists not to share insights they have into their patients psyches unless doing so will be connecting. The aim for a good therapist isn’t to say the truth but to say the truth that will also be healing. Since it is his view that the relationship itself is the cause of healing, a truth that does not bring close is counter-pro... See more

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[prayer forgiveness]

Shakti Gawain on forgiving others:

Write down the names of anyone who hurt you or toward whom you feel anger. Next to each name, jot down the problem.

Close your eyes, relax, and visualize each person you’re angry with, one at a time. Imagine yourself telling why you feel angry or hurt, but adding that you now wan... See more

Through forgiveness, which essentially means recognizing the insubstantiality of the past and allowing the present moment to be as it is, the miracle of transformation happens not only within but also without. A silent space of intense presence arises both in you and around you. Whoever or whatever enters that field of consciousness will be affecte

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I have lately spent some of my prayer-time each day with a modified form of the ‘Jesus Prayer.’ It runs, “Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me a sinner, and forgive all those who hate me or do me harm. Forgive them freely without reproach and grant me true repentance.” I offer no great authority for this prayer – inde... See more

Julie: “Did I give you the car keys?”

Current AJ: “I don’t have a memory of it, but it’s possible.”

And then I’ll spend a few seconds searching for keys in my backpack. Sometimes I even find them there.

the attempt at fencing in the ambiguity of that rule yields an arbitrary law that may draw justified objections even from proponents of the original. We have created a division and resulting conflict where none was ever necessary, and done so in the name of protecting a rule everyone agrees was just. ... Whatever we feel divides us, we should caref... See more

Judgment is vulnerable to error, and thus, justice requires an extra-judicial mechanism for maintaining and saving it: mercy.

The Heart of Judgment Zohar Atkins 3.7.2025

Genesis 2:18 says: “God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper for him.’” On this Rashi writes: A HELP MEET FOR HIM — (כנגדו literally, opposite, opposed to him) If he is worthy she shall be a help to him; if he is unworthy she shall be opposed to him, to fight him (Yevamot 63a).

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