psychology
Newton’s Laws of Productivity
Newton’s laws of motion reveal insights that tell you pretty much everything you need to know about how to be productive.
- Objects in motion tend to stay in motion. Find a way to get started in less than 2 minutes.
- It’s not just about working hard, it’s also about working on the right things. You have a limited amount of
James Clear • Newton's Laws of Getting Stuff Done
ore often than not, our fear doesn’t help us avoid the feelings; it simply subjects us to them for an agonizingly long time. We feel the suffering of procrastination, or the frustration of a stuck relationship. I know partnerships that drag along painfully for years because no one is willing to speak about the elephant in the room. Taking risks,
... See morePeter Bregman • The Unexpected Antidote to Procrastination
To use 10/10/10, we think about our decisions on three different time frames:
• How will we feel about it 10 minutes from now?
• How about 10 months from now?
• How about 10 years from now?
fastcompany.com • The 10/10/10 Rule for Tough Decisions
Your life feels terrible because your mind is filled with beliefs that interpret it as terrible.
But here’s the truth that psychology points to:
You’re in the perfect position to change your life.
Dan Koe • How to Unf*ck Your Life
I personally like to think of self-development as an endless series of problems that, once solved, increase in meaning and complexity, making life more interesting as you solve them.
Since the majority of you are in stages blue through green, and since we are focused on our personal lives, these will almost always involve the big 3:
• Work
• Health
•
Dan Koe • How to Unf*ck Your Life
Once you are stretched between two opposite poles (your old way of life and the new approach you want to take), you will encounter obstacles on the path.
If you are an aspiring writer, you may fall into the trap of perfectionism.
You start projects and then quit because they are never good enough.
With this specific obstacle, you would need to reframe
... See moreDan Koe • How to Unf*ck Your Life
So why don’t we live life that way? Why don’t we accept falling — even if it’s a failure — as part of the ride?
Because we’re afraid of feeling.
Peter Bregman • The Unexpected Antidote to Procrastination
Gate’s Law — “Most people overestimate what they can do in one year and underestimate what they can do in ten years.”
medium.com • Mental Models I Find Repeatedly Useful – Medium
Our jobs have become prisons from which we don’t want to escape