psychology
Change must be possible if you want to reach the next stage.
You need either the skill acquisition, resources, or environment that allows you to see the potential for change.
This corresponds to the concept of “horizontal development” in Susanne Greuter’s ego development theory.
In order to move up vertically (to new stages) one must acquire a
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Unknown Unknowns — “Known unknowns refers to ‘risks you are aware of, such as cancelled flights….’ Unknown unknowns are risks that ‘come from situations that are so out of this world that they never occur to you.’ (related: Cynefin framework)
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eliminate the opposing forces. Simplify your life, learn how to say no, change your environment, reduce the number of responsibilities that you take on, and otherwise eliminate the forces that are holding you back.
James Clear • Newton's Laws of Getting Stuff Done
Third rule of productivity
Newton’s Laws of Productivity
Newton’s laws of motion reveal insights that tell you pretty much everything you need to know about how to be productive.
- Objects in motion tend to stay in motion. Find a way to get started in less than 2 minutes.
- It’s not just about working hard, it’s also about working on the right things. You have a limited amount of
James Clear • Newton's Laws of Getting Stuff Done
Once you are stretched between two opposite poles (your old way of life and the new approach you want to take), you will encounter obstacles on the path.
If you are an aspiring writer, you may fall into the trap of perfectionism.
You start projects and then quit because they are never good enough.
With this specific obstacle, you would need to reframe
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aperspectival madness occurs when individuals or societies recognize the validity of multiple perspectives (which is good), but then fall into a relativistic trap where they cannot or will not integrate these perspectives or make value judgments between them (which is problematic).
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Murphy’s Law — “Anything that can go wrong, will.” (related: Hofstadter’s Law, “It always takes longer than you expect, even when you take into account Hofstadter’s Law.”)
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If the vertical axis is caring personally and the horizontal axis is challenging directly , you want your feedback to fall in the upper right-hand quadrant. That’s where radical candor lies.
firstround.com • Radical Candor — The Surprising Secret to Being a Good Boss
Our jobs have become prisons from which we don’t want to escape