Post-individualism

The quality of owning freezes you forever in "I," and cuts you off forever from the "we.

That’s the thing about attachment—you need to depend to be independent. You need a stable base to venture out. Something to rely on to take risks. Some stability to cope with chaos. Otherwise you can’t explore with confidence. If you fear abandonment, you won’t risk romance. Words will feel traumatic. You will stay stagnant, afraid to move. Maybe

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While left and right seem totally polarized, they share one thing: the worship of the self.