Perfectionism / Ego

I work best from a place of zero ego and zero hope. I call this state being “lower than a worm.” A feeling that nothing will ever come of what I’m working on is crucial. A feeling of my smallness in relation to the world. I gotta be below the dirt. I am nothing and nobody. That frees me up. Who cares what a worm thinks, you know?

Lincoln Michel • Processing: How Erin Somers Wrote The Ten Year Affair

perfectionism is wanting to be unharmable.

If you’re a perfectionist, you want more of something. What is it? Why do you want that? How do you imagine getting what you want will make you feel? Perfectionism invites a deep, unending exploration of who you are and what you most desire from this life.

Katherine Morgan Schafler • The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control

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