Optimal grip
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The “killer” signs:
Contempt. Doesn’t matter if you’re laughing as you jokingly put each other down. One day it won’t be funny.
Dismissiveness. “Ugh, she’s always like that”
Indifference. “nah it’s nbd whatever”
One partner constantly apologizing for the other. This is not sustainable.
This is bad form – when the hard times hit, they’ll buckle.
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Contempt. Doesn’t matter if you’re laughing as you jokingly put each other down. One day it won’t be funny.
Dismissiveness. “Ugh, she’s always like that”
Indifference. “nah it’s nbd whatever”
One partner constantly apologizing for the other. This is not sustainable.
This is bad form – when the hard times hit, they’ll buckle.
I find... See more
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