not knowing
"ruminating is an illusion of control"
Suddenly you realize that you don’t have to know more. In fact, accepting that you’ll never know enough is a way of yielding yourself to the enchantment of the universe. — Heather Havrilesky
The answer may not yet exist.
#181 Dear Baby: Am I fit to be a parent?
“whether to float with the tide, or to swim for a goal”
And when I practice letting go of how I think things are supposed to look and instead cultivate a trust in the unfolding that is taking place, often in unseen ways, the Here-ness of challenge or pain or depression or grief or (anything) softens even 5%, and that 5% adds up fast when I don’t assume it’s nothing.
To move toward fully living
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