Love

Unconditional love is not the same as abandoning yourself. You can love someone as they are and know it isn’t right for you to be with them.

I believe that life exists to be enjoyed and that the most important thing is to feel good about yourself. Each person will have his or her own vehicles for both, and those vehicles will change over time. For some, the answer will be working with orphans, and for others, it will be composing music. I have a personal answer to both—to love, be lov... See more

Conditional love means: "Please hide parts of yourself so I don't have to feel uncomfortable.”

You cannot love fully unless you also see that you are completely empowered. It is near impossible to love what you think oppresses you.

Love without boundaries is self-abandonment. Loving someone is indistinguishable from honoring your own needs. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen someone confuse codependency with love. If you need someone to be a certain way, it’s not love. Being codependent is just abandoning yourself in an attempt to change someone’s behavior. At its c... See more