IG - intimacy

One year single. Lessons of chosen celibacy. When creating content, I do my absolute best to ensure my message is not 'Look at me', but rather, 'Learn from me.'   Admittedly, sometimes I do a shit job and other times I hit the mark. With life's lessons... See more

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Stop trying to be the *chill* one in the relationship with zero needs.

Do harmful, abusive people exist? Yes. Do we often have to set boundaries or walk away from them? Absolutely!! But, it’s also important to recognize when we’re trying to run from people who genuinely love us and want to help. The internet will often have you... See more

Masculine and feminine are not universal. ⁠ ⁠ What you find when you study different branches of spiritual philosophy is that there are variations in the ways each tradition defines what is masculine and what is feminine. ⁠ ⁠ For example, in esoteric Taoism, the feminine is the moon and the... See more

As promised, a follow up to yesterday’s videos on soothing your partners nervous system. Try these and let me know what you think. If you want to go deeper, there are links to workshops and the virtual workshop in my bio. #consciouslove #begenerous... See more

People tend to get trapped in the relational dynamic of how we see them. Once our way of “seeing” them is locked in, it’s really hard for them to rise above it in our eyes because our brains are wired to establish and recognize patterns. It’s important to examine how we limit our... See more

Holding on to past things won’t get you anywhere. Too many people obsess about things that they just need to move beyond. If you are a person who is constantly looking up your ex to see what they are doing, you are wasting time! If you are a person who harbors hate against someone who has done you wrong, you are wasting... See more

Let the medicine of heartbreak journey you toward your new beginning, it won’t feel this painful forever 🌿