how to be magnetic

Good conversation tips:

“If we had 5 mins left, what would you want to have had covered” gets to the meat earlier
“Putting aside a list of pros/cons, what’s the one reason you’re doing this?” “Why is that the most important reason?”
“What would the best version of yourself do”?
When someone confronts you w/ a problem they have with you
- What I heard was

the best way to never be disagreed with is to be silent. it’s actually less scary than you think to have people strongly disagree with you. it’s like: oh, i wasn’t aware what i was saying was nearly significant enough to evoke such a passionate response! but hi! okay! let’s talk!

Isabel

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you need to shrink your ego, too. You need to not take things personally. You need to give your friends the benefit of the doubt. You need to respect other people’s space, time, needs, and not expect others to prioritize your wants over theirs. You need to treat everyone like they are important, just as you are yourself (viewing everyone as importa... See more

She makes him look good by following it up with a joke about how “he’s my family member.” Talking with her is like dancing lead with a really good follow. And dancing with a really good follow is fantastic. They make you feel like their endless marvelousness is a product of your actions.

Stop Hiding From Your Power

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Isabel Unraveled

smelling good, remembering people’s names, and wishing people happy birthday on their actual birthday remain undefeated as three of the simplest charisma hacks in life. especially smelling good

Isabel

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Everyone wants to know how to be liked. But I think we all know, actually, how to be liked, it’s just that it’s hard. It takes attention and openness, and the confidence to present your character like it’s a fun mask you’re wearing rather than a lesson you’re desperate to teach someone. If you have that, it’s simple: when people put energy into you... See more

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Hard to get is unforgettable. When a brand is captivating and even a bit scarce, it makes for a more-powerful long-term relationship.

But the reason you’re not cool is because you’re trying to be cool.

First imitate, then intuit

when people put energy into you, attune to it, and give them harmonious energy back