“If you're ever wondering what is the right decision, ‘Should I do this, or should I do that? Should I live here, or should I live there? Should I take this job or that job?’ that just the act of choosing one and wholeheartedly committing to it makes your choice the best choice. It is your commitment itself that can make any choice the right choice... See more
two questions to ask when facing a crossroads decision
1. what is my deepest desire here? really get under it, into your body, feel it, for the soul. which decision brings me closer towards that desire?
2. which challenge do I have the capacity for to take on right now? look at this with as... See more
Fourth, your decisions will change you. For example, sometimes a taking up a lifestyle renders you incapable of enjoying it any longer…it is literally impossible for you to understand the meaning of a decision until you directly experience its consequences.
The numbness I felt was the result of continuously choosing to ride the gondola in the direction of someone else’s definition of success, moving further and further from my own intuition of a life well lived. When we feel internal turmoil, it’s a signal from our body to rethink our assumptions. While it’s natural to turn to everyone else — anyone... See more
So practice making fast decisions. Accept the risk and emotional labour involved in doing so. Course correct when you make mistakes and don’t get pregnant unless you really want to.