to communicate well

I just got some (personally) mindblowing advice, re: a message that felt overdue: You don't have to explain yourself. Say, '"Thanks for your patience; it took longer than I expected to get back to you." and then move on with it! 🤯

The right person isn't someone who can read your mind. Get rid of your unrealistic expectations. Learn to communicate better, with calm and maturity, not defiance and anger.