Age Wise Sayings
Most of the things we need to thrive in life have become products. So we don’t just go talk to a wise person we know and trust, we go see a therapist. We might have once gone to see a priest. We can get our shopping delivered, so we’re not even interacting with the people where we buy our food. We might not have to go to the post office or the book... See more
334 / Parent or not: finding networks of care
Douglas Rushkoff argues (in an essay that could be three) that instead of being overwhelmed by fast-changing news and events, we should focus on real human connections and care in our everyday lives. I loved this bit: “I find myself slowing changing from an agent of change to an agent of care. I’m less confident in the impact my activism might have... See more
334 / Parent or not: finding networks of care
How to Make Your Life Feel More Meaningful: Key Actions & Summary
Core Concept
A meaningful life is built on deep connections across four domains: close relationships, community, work, and spirituality. When these connections are strong, we're better equipped to handle anxiety and despair.
Key Actions
1. Conduct a Meaning-in-Life Audit
Rate your connection level (1-3) in each domain:
Close relationships: How connected are you to family, friends, and those you care for?
Community: Do you belong to groups that give you collective identity?
Work: Does your work provide purpose, mastery, and a sense of making a difference?
Spirituality: Do you feel connected to something transcendent?
2. Strengthen Your Weaker Domains
For relationships: Reconnect with friends or family you've neglected
For community: Join groups aligned with your values or volunteer
For work: Take on purpose-driven tasks or volunteer in ways that use your abilities
For spirituality: Explore spiritual practices that resonate with your worldview
3. Try Existential Exercises When Meaning Dips
Self-grounding: Write about your most important values and why they matter to you
Nostalgic reflection: Recall meaningful social events, cultural rituals, or times you overcame challenges
Pursue self-transcendent experiences through:
Religious/spiritual rituals
Mindfulness meditation
Contact with nature
Psychedelic experiences (with appropriate supervision)
Summary
In our increasingly disconnected world, deliberately cultivating meaning is essential for psychological well-being. The good news is that meaning is "fungible" – strength in one domain can compensate for weakness in others. By auditing your life, focusing on areas that need strengthening, and using existential exercises during low periods, you can build a life that feels more purposeful and meaningful, providing a buffer against anxiety and despair.
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