Kurt Vonnegut tells his wife he's going out to buy an envelope_
"Oh, she says, well, you're not a poor man. You know, why don't you go online and buy a hundred envelopes and put them in the closet? And so I pretend not to hear her. And go out to get an envelope because I'm going to have a hell of a good time in the process of buying one envelope. I... See more
There will always be someone with more - more money, more recognition, more certainty, more of whatever you’ve decided counts as winning. Being ahead, either materially or psychologically, is a slippery slope to a mindset of never enough.
When men are face to face with each other, that’s quite a threatening position. Now, if I tell you this, you won’t be able to unsee it. If you want to communicate with young men, go fishing, go for a drive, go for a hike
The challenge lies in distinguishing between solutions that buy time for deeper work and those that actively prevent it. I’m keen to read Sanchez-Gomez’ second part (yet to be published), where he promises a way to navigate that tension