Similarly, I think people need to ask themselves – and it might be easier if we ask each other – What do you really want to be doing? How did you fall in love in the first place? People start optimizing for things like “hm, if I did this I would get 5% more traffic” or “I would get to the next follower milestone” I think because it’s visible, and i... See more

I am a 28-year-old woman. I do not need an aesthetic to make myself easier to digest for the micro-trend-obsessed Internet. I need a value system.