Our focus is to identify our wound, to look at where it came from, and to connect to and heal the pain and fear that keep the thoughts and behaviors in place. Until we are able to do this, the patterns getting repeated in our relationships will continue to follow a very similar script.
Jessica Baum • Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love
You can’t recover until you know what you’re recovering from.” – Izzy Letts
We all know of people who have had an emotional crisis many years ago and, to this day, have not recovered. It has totally colored their life, and they have paid a big price for their lack of know-how in handling the underlying emotions.
David R. Hawkins • Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender
we must look back at our recent past to find the challenges that will define our future. Working through a trauma requires understanding what happened, and why.
Jane McGonigal • Imaginable: How to See the Future Coming and Feel Ready for Anything—Even Things That Seem Impossible Today
difficulties may arise when we use “normal life” to evade grief.