Seems like one of the highest leverage stories for many ppl (me included) to reprogram is the one that goes like: >I am struggling >I am struggling and it is my fault >I am struggling and it is my fault and I have to deal with this on my own >I am going to isolate myself... See more

@maebichka feeling into how much I mistrust people

Never mention love and you make its absence speak volumes-your victims will wonder why you never discuss your emotions, And as they have such thoughts, they will go further, imagining what else is going on in your mind.