
Saved by Ilana Ettinger and
Why Everyone Wants the Same Things
Saved by Ilana Ettinger and
Over the years, I have come to see how the need to be right is connected to not belonging.
Humans are similar. There is tremendous internal pressure to comply with the norms of the group. The reward of being accepted is often greater than the reward of winning an argument, looking smart, or finding truth. Most days, we’d rather be wrong with the crowd than be right by ourselves.