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what's a good commitment?
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wonder what it means to commit yourself to a place. I know that question can’t be answered in the abstract.
If I have one life to live and one precious lifetime to do it in, what is more important; a commitment to oneself in learning and securing the best options for a lifetime or being committed to the principle of self-sacrificing commitment?
It’s difficult to find what author Rosalyn Dischiavo calls “the deep yes.” This sort of selective prioritization requires responsibility and vulnerability. And it requires process. The people-pleasing power of an indiscriminate yes is a form of resisting the yes of shipping our real work. It cuts us off from the connection that we desperately seek.