Opinion | Timeless Wisdom for Leading a Life of Love, Friendship and Learning (Published 2021)
nytimes.comSaved by Ashley Zhang
Opinion | Timeless Wisdom for Leading a Life of Love, Friendship and Learning (Published 2021)
Saved by Ashley Zhang
When you care about something in this way, it is not just a means that you exploit for your own sake. Its flourishing makes you happy. And so the sources of happiness, though also of vulnerability, grow. That is Mill’s idea. I think it is a pretty good one. Call it the first rule for preventing a midlife crisis: you have to care about something oth
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... See moreSo I came up with a mantra for future decisions: “Coming alive over getting ahead.” It was a reminder to choose work that lit me up, rather than work that merely serves to earn more money.
True philosophy has one question that contains all others: “How do you live the best life?” I assure you that this question cannot be answered by climbing the power ladder placed in front of you as a child. This question is answered by holding the perspective of the Universe in our mind, observing the essence of its movements (which often can’t be
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