Third, and this is harder, you have to learn to metabolize feedback differently. When reality contradicts your model, it’s not a failure signal; it’s data. Neutral, immutable data. That's the whole point of making models in the first place, to test them against the world and update them. But you can only get that data by acting. The model serves

First, you have to get comfortable with the idea that your model will always be incomplete and partially wrong. Always. You could spend your entire life refining your understanding of how to write a novel, and you'd still learn more from writing one bad novel than from all that study. The territory is infinitely richer than any map can capture.

Perhaps ( perhaps ) we don't fear action so much as we fear feedback. As long as our model stays in our head, it can be perfect. The moment we test it against reality, we have to confront our wrongness. And for highly analytical people, being wrong feels like a moral failing rather than a normal part of learning.

I think the issue is that we treat these two things as if they exist on the same spectrum. Like you do some analysis, then some action, then more analysis, then more action, and you can slide back and forth between them smoothly. But they're actually different modes of being. Analysis happens in the realm of abstraction and infinite possibility.

Our analytical approach has real value. Understanding systems and mechanisms and underlying principles actually does help us act more effectively when we eventually act . The trouble starts when the understanding becomes a substitute for the action rather than preparation for it.

Your brain gives you the same little dopamine hits for understanding something as it does for doing something. Maybe even bigger hits, honestly. Understanding is clean and controllable and it happens entirely in your head (where you're safe.) Action is messy. Action = other people and uncontrollable variables and the possibility of looking stupid.

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We are the people who - far too often - mistake intellectual clarity for progress.