Daniel Wentsch
@klickreflex
Freelance designer and web dev from Freiburg, Germany.
Daniel Wentsch
@klickreflex
Freelance designer and web dev from Freiburg, Germany.
Also Evolution ist Anpassungsprozess.
Konkret, vor 120 Jahren wäre jemand wie ich im Deutschen Kaiserreich vielleicht in eine führende Rolle im Militär gekommen und hätte da rechtsextremes Gedankengut dann sozusagen staatlich abgesegnet vertreten können.
Heutzutage konnte ich aber mein so in mir angelegtes rechtsextremes Gedankengut nicht halt
... See moreIch glaube halt, dass man, also wenn jetzt einer von uns dreien hier im Raum depressiv ist, dann muss man dem helfen. Aber man darf diesenjenigen jetzt nicht entscheiden lassen, was wir machen, wie wir die Probleme lösen oder wie wir den Fortlauf des Tages gestalten.
Wenn wir zu dritt in einem Raum sind und einer eben der Meinung ist, alles ist
... See moreAber bei ihr glaube ich eben nicht, dass das Streben wirklich nach Verständnis geht.
Ich glaube, das ist ein Gefühl. Ich glaube, das Gefühl ist die Untergangsangst.
Und ich hatte dieselbe und viele Rechte haben die. Ich glaube, das ist das rechte Grundgefühl.
Heutzutage glaube ich, rechte Politik ist eine
... See moreWith a greater sense of our right to exist, we may become better able to articulate how it feels to be us. Instead of just resenting another person’s criticism, we might explain why we believe they have been unjust to us. If we are upset by our partner, we don’t need to accuse them of being evil and slam doors. We’ll know to explain how (perhaps
... See moreWhat helps enormously in our attempts to know our own minds is, surprisingly, the presence of another mind. For all the glamour of the solitary seer, thinking usually happens best in tandem. It is the curiosity of someone else that gives us the confidence to remain curious about ourselves. It is the application of a light pressure from outside us
... See moreWhen eating, just eat. When drinking, just drink. Mindfulness is the very best seasoning, for your food and for your entire life. Enjoy each bite, enjoy each moment!
This week, when you’re eating or drinking, don’t do anything else. Sit down and take the time to enjoy what you are taking in. Open all the senses as you eat or drink. Look at the colors, shapes, surface textures. Attend to the smells and flavors in your mouth. Listen to the sounds of eating and drinking.
Reminding yourself
Post a note on the table
... See moreIn an emotionally healthy childhood, the child can see that the good carer isn’t either entirely good or wholly bad and so isn’t worthy of either idealization or denigration. The child accepts the faults and virtues of the carer with melancholy maturity and gratitude—and in doing so, by extension, becomes ready to accept that everyone they like
... See moreImportantly, in an emotionally healthy childhood, plenty goes wrong. No one has staked their reputation on rendering the whole story perfect. The carer does not see it as their role to remove every frustration. They intuit that a lot of good comes from having the right, manageable kind of friction, through which the child develops their own
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