Was there someone out there who would find me to be enough? Not too much or too little, but the person they’d been waiting for their whole life.

If you feel haunted by the loss of a relationship, you are not upset because someone is no longer in your life. You are mourning one idea you had about what your future would look like, and what it means about you that one person you saw in it is no longer there. The idea that you can “lose” a relationship comes from the idea that you can also “win