Some Parts of You Only Emerge for Certain People
As soon as you’re able to go into the parts of yourself that you don’t want to, and know your own depth, every around you changes and becomes a reflection.
I used to think it was so hard.
It’s actually so easy.
Except you have to go through a lot of what you... See more
masonkuhrinstagram.comfalling in love is letting another person have an impact on you. You’re not rigid and unchanging, she told me, you’re altered by each other, ‘like two stones rubbing together until suddenly they fit’. The important distinction? When you want to change to keep a partner interested, that’s ‘adaption’, which is bad because you’re bending your identity
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some parts of you only emerge for certain people
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