• If you had to leave your job today, what would you do instead?


• What’s the best argument in favor of doing that right now?


• If you have a partner, what’s the best argument in favor of breaking up with them?


• Are there ways you behave that you wish you didn’t? What unacknowledged desires could be driving those?


• What have you said “yes” to that you wouldn’t

Honest self-questioning is difficult. It requires asking yourself simple questions that are uncomfortable to answer. In fact, in my experience, the more uncomfortable the answer, the more likely it is to be true.