Boundaries are not common sense; they’re taught.

Boundaries: Where You End and I Begin by Anne Katherine.

Intellectual Boundaries

Telling people what to do with their lives doesn’t allow them to work through their own issues.

“I’m entitled to have expectations.” “In healthy relationships, my desires will be acknowledged and accepted.” “After I set limits, people will remain in a relationship with me.” “I can set standards even through my discomfort.”

More examples of passiveness: Having an issue but not saying anything Allowing people to do and say things with which you disagree Ignoring things that are triggering for you

“I will not spend more without having money saved, even if I earn more.”

I’d like to restrict my work, as much as possible, to the following time frames.”

Doing things that don’t make you happy Lacking balance (harmony) in your roles and