“Resilient” Isn’t the Compliment You Think It Is
Anne Helen Petersen • Friday Thread: Theories of Resilience

Adversity is said to bring out the best in people. I don’t believe that for a moment. It brings out only what they have to do. It begins with self-acceptance and then proceeds, through resilience, to taking the necessary positive actions.
David Falkner • Russell Rules: 11 Lessons on Leadership from the Twentieth Century's Greatest Winner

As Diane Coutu so eloquently explains in her luminous “How Resilience Works,” “Resilient people possess three characteristics — a staunch acceptance of reality; a deep belief, often buttressed by strongly held values, that life is meaningful; and an uncanny ability to improvise. You can bounce back from hardship with just one or two of these qualit
... See moreAndrea Ovans • What Resilience Means, and Why It Matters
Our individual ability to endure hardship without it traumatizing us is our capital-R Resilience, and it’s different for everybody.