What most couples don’t understand is that all couples create a patterned style of communication around difficult topics. This interaction frequently takes on a life of its own. The interaction is actually bigger than both people. In reality, the problem is created and maintained by both people: there is not such thing as one-person problems, and

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Renewing and rebuilding your relationship begins with accepting that you can only change you. Next, you must recognize that your attempt to work out closeness and distance will inevitably created a patterned interaction, or a dance. By recognizing the dance and giving it a name like the ones mentioned before, or your own if those don’t work, you

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