Pattern. The next time the same problem comes up, think pattern. Now the concern is not just that this has happened once, but that a pattern is starting to develop, or already has.
Kerry Patterson • Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High, Third Edition
let’s talk about patterns.
Because trust isn’t about love, loyalty, or how someone makes you feel in the moment. It’s about what they do. Consistently. Predictably. Especially when it’s inconvenient.
Trust is pattern recognition.
Not sexy. Not sentimental. But clean. And if your perception has been used against you, clean is sacred.
Because trust isn’t about love, loyalty, or how someone makes you feel in the moment. It’s about what they do. Consistently. Predictably. Especially when it’s inconvenient.
Trust is pattern recognition.
Not sexy. Not sentimental. But clean. And if your perception has been used against you, clean is sacred.
Betrayal Is Violence By Way of Unreality
Notice patterns
Take advantage of them
Take advantage of them