
Notes On: How to Romanticise February

Talking about love is one of the grand traditions of being alive: what it means to fall in and out of it, how to keep it, how to grieve it, how to live for ourselves and toward another .1
Evana • Birthday letters (III)
Love is all we need.

the necessity of matching up with the person you love. Of feeling the same kinds of feeling. Of moving through the world in the same kind of way.
Christina Joyce Hauser • The Crane Wife: A Memoir in Essays
It often happens that you have a good friend of the opposite sex with whom you share common commitments. You trust this person’s wisdom and you find you can open up and share many intimate things without fear. He or she understands you well and listens to you and gives you great advice. But the person doesn’t attract you romantically. Maybe he or s
... See moreTimothy Keller • The Meaning of Marriage: Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God
The underlying fantasy of love is that by getting close to this person, you can become a little like they are. They can help you to grow to your full potential.